I am so excited to start this monthly thing, and am proud to introduce you to a wonderful woman I have had the opportunity to get to know (just a little). Enjoy her story and go check her out.
Hello there! I’m Chelsea and I blog over at Hobby HoppingHousewife. Shannon recently shared with me that she wanted to start having
people guest blog and share their testimonies. And I’m so excited because she
asked me to be the first one! (Actually, she asked me a while ago… but I had to
figure out the right version of I wanted to go with. I mean, we all have a
short version and a long version and the really long one. Hahha. I needed a
blog version and it pretty much starts, continues and ends with my husband.)
I met Justin way back in high school (by way back I mean
like seven years ago! Ieesh!) through a friend that he was dating. He was a
Christian, uber honest and quite the hopeless romantic. Like watched way too
many sappy movies of what girls think a guy should be like and then times that
by ten. Don’t get me wrong, that’s really great and all, but he was doing it
for the wrong girl. Little did I know I would be the right one (six years
laterish)!
High school came and went and so did they people we dated…
and then we found each other on facebook! Shortly after that (shortly meaning
like a day) I went to Verizon to get something fixed or whatever and they
deleted all my contacts! It was terrible! So when I got home I sent a message
out to my friend friends (ya know, the non-acquaintances, the people I was
actually friends with) and Justin saying that “I lost my numbers, please send
me yours.” Little did Justin know that I was fishing for his number and that he
was the only one that I sent the message to that I didn’t already previously
have. Best part, he took the bait! He texted me later on that day and we went
on our last first date that we’d ever have.
So anyways, I didn’t grow up in a religious home. My dad
claimed he was a Christian and my mom a Catholic. They supposedly couldn’t
agree on what to raise us as, so they did neither. Which is whatever. Going
into the relationship with Justin, I knew he was a Christian, but I wasn’t
because I didn’t “need the help” and could “do it all on my own.” I also knew
this would be an eventual problem for us because I knew he’d only marry a women
who had accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior.
The further into our relationship I started to see that
Justin’s faith was growing and his walk getting stronger. That he would have
these things called convictions and the more his faith grew, the better man he
was becoming. And as I saw all these incredibly good things in his life that
God was supposedly doing for him, the more it made me rethink and question what
I believe.
I remember he told me one night, “the thing that makes me
the most sad is that if something were to happen to us and we died, I wouldn’t
get to see you in Heaven.” Oh man did that bring tears to my eyes! And that’s
when I really started to rethink things.
He eventually asked me to come to church with him. I loved
him so much and I knew how much he wanted me to know God and how important it
was to him, so I went. And kept going. And then one day a friend of ours asked
if I wanted to do the media slides during worship because no one else was and
that it wasn’t that hard. I said yes because Justin was doing sound and we
would get to do it together so that meant more time spent with him. And to
spend more time with Jus meant going to church more, and hearing the word of
God more.
And then Justin sat me down one day. And I knew it was
coming. He told me that he loved me more than I could possibly know, but he
couldn’t marry me. That he would wait forever, but he had made a promise to God
that he wouldn’t do it unless I gave myself to Christ. And I remember wanting
to cry so badly when he said that. I wanted to tell him that I wanted it for me
too, I just didn’t know how. But instead, I just sat there. I could see how
much it pained him to say that to me. To tell me that he loved me, but he loved
God even more.
That all really gave me the kick in the butt I needed. I had
a meeting with the pastor because I didn’t know why I just couldn’t let go and
let God. And then I found myself praying sometimes. And so I texted Justin
that. And he asked if we could pray
after he got off work, and we did.
Through Justin I got to see God’s love, His light and hear
His word. I am so blessed.
Love,
Chels